During the conversation I uncovered that the house she lived in had been bought for her by her parents at the tender age of 18 to supposedly encourage her to develop some independence. Her car had also been bought for her by her parents. Her mother came around once a week to clean for her and do her washing and she admitted that she never bothered to learn how to cook because she would often just go back home for meals.
After this conversation I realised what was holding this beautiful young girl back from finding not just a job, but a purpose for her life. She had never been taught how to do anything for herself.
Clearly her mother wanted to provide her daughter with everything she could ever want but in doing so deprived her of the very life skills she so desperately needed.
We need to teach our children how to think for themselves and prepare them for life!